it comes and goes

I have loved my little bungalow by the sea for nearly three years now. I have a somewhat odd relationship with places I live. I often consider them alive and quiet soulful beings; friends, really. I take care of them, and they take care of me. Predictably, I find it emotionally challenging to leave a house I have loved, a house that has been good to me, because it’s not unlike parting with a close friend. It’s not surprising that now, having to leave my beloved bungalow for financial (and some emotional) reasons, I’m feeling sad at the thought of abandoning such a good friend, and I hope that it’s well taken care of after I’m gone.

Though I loved the house from the moment I stepped inside, it took all this time to feel like I had achieved a point where I was creatively happy with it, and it’s hard to believe the before and afters sometimes:

I don't know what I was thinking.

much better.

There was still a lot to do, like finish the bedroom and bathroom and clean up the outside. But like any good project, it never would have been truly finished, and so I pass on this wonderful friend to someone new. Here’s hoping it will be as good to you as it was to me.

4 Responses to “it comes and goes”

  1. KT Says:

    Well, I can’t say I’m as sad, because I am getting a new neighbor. Still that place was very cozy and you made it really nice. But I can’t wait to see what you do with the new place!

  2. jessica Says:

    Yeah, that part is very exciting! I’m really looking forward to the new place and new neighbors :)

  3. Bike Games Says:

    I like the remodeling…I love watching HGTV because their people have so many great ideas for decorating your house.

  4. Lorna Ruth Says:

    I have just found your blog and have fallen in love with it. I cannot wait for an update, no matter where you’re at! Hope all is well!

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